this is where i break my promise about not talking about her...
so yeah, I've been racking my head trying to make sense of this:
I've been helping a guy who claims to be a friend with tips about her, awesome -.-
she apparently heard from several sources that i think of the two months we were together as bad.
she sent me a text blaming me of this (for which i will say that i have said something to that extent to people who asked but only regarding her and the break up not the time before) and saying that she differs.
the next day the supposed friend tells me that she told him she wants to be friends with me again and a different friend said that she is planning to get back together with me.
i confronted her of this and told her very politely to shove it. she was persistent and eventually said something about second chances.
which brings us to the point. i made what i view to be a mistake, that i maintain was right to be made. i texted her that i am willing to try and be her friend, but only if she shows that she isn't a psycho bitch.
this basically being my trap, i mentioned it being "my game" which rules i make and duration i choose. on the other hand i also set up a catch twenty two trap because i stressed in the previous conversation that i don't play such games, meaning that she could well see the game was a set up.
luckily she has not, and apparently will not reply, hopefully my making the possibility of her being close to me seem hellish and not worth while, by playing an ass (that would suite my intelligence, instead of a dumb-ass), will result in her leaving me the frack alone.
if this fails i shall have to consider the bedrock of this post giving her an honest to god second chance.
now while i do believe in second chances, and that people change (in a precise velocity of one second's worth of change per second, being a consequentialist and all) i do have a problem with this option.
she hurt me, a lot, and she played me for a foul, and she very well may do so again.
i don't want the girl i knew around anymore, and plus she is dating a guy who used to be my best friend, and is an a** hole and as a friend i really wouldn't want to hear about that.
so here is my question to you (and me): does she deserve the benefit of the doubt? give her a second chance?
my initial though is "hell no!" (as demonstrated above) but if i am correct i will fold, if she will continue to try, though i might have closed that option :D
also i really wish i were in nerdfighterlike instead of drowning in stupid self perpetuated teenage drama.
and on that note i'll end yet another useless rant, remember people are ends of their own and not just means in your games, so don't play games with people as pawns.
so yeah, I've been racking my head trying to make sense of this:
I've been helping a guy who claims to be a friend with tips about her, awesome -.-
she apparently heard from several sources that i think of the two months we were together as bad.
she sent me a text blaming me of this (for which i will say that i have said something to that extent to people who asked but only regarding her and the break up not the time before) and saying that she differs.
the next day the supposed friend tells me that she told him she wants to be friends with me again and a different friend said that she is planning to get back together with me.
i confronted her of this and told her very politely to shove it. she was persistent and eventually said something about second chances.
which brings us to the point. i made what i view to be a mistake, that i maintain was right to be made. i texted her that i am willing to try and be her friend, but only if she shows that she isn't a psycho bitch.
this basically being my trap, i mentioned it being "my game" which rules i make and duration i choose. on the other hand i also set up a catch twenty two trap because i stressed in the previous conversation that i don't play such games, meaning that she could well see the game was a set up.
luckily she has not, and apparently will not reply, hopefully my making the possibility of her being close to me seem hellish and not worth while, by playing an ass (that would suite my intelligence, instead of a dumb-ass), will result in her leaving me the frack alone.
if this fails i shall have to consider the bedrock of this post giving her an honest to god second chance.
now while i do believe in second chances, and that people change (in a precise velocity of one second's worth of change per second, being a consequentialist and all) i do have a problem with this option.
she hurt me, a lot, and she played me for a foul, and she very well may do so again.
i don't want the girl i knew around anymore, and plus she is dating a guy who used to be my best friend, and is an a** hole and as a friend i really wouldn't want to hear about that.
so here is my question to you (and me): does she deserve the benefit of the doubt? give her a second chance?
my initial though is "hell no!" (as demonstrated above) but if i am correct i will fold, if she will continue to try, though i might have closed that option :D
also i really wish i were in nerdfighterlike instead of drowning in stupid self perpetuated teenage drama.
and on that note i'll end yet another useless rant, remember people are ends of their own and not just means in your games, so don't play games with people as pawns.
